Before I start talking about what I will be writing about I just want to tell you how I feel about my website and consequently this blog.

Opinion.

That’s it. I really have no focus with this site. It is mainly about how I feel about various different topics and I always hope that you oh precious Constant Reader take away from it what I’m trying to express be it funny, serious, or real.

So that’s it. With no real "niche" my site won’t be a money maker but I hope that it’ll show me. A most honest side of me that I can deliver on the internet, the DaveyDZ side of me. One I can share and you, sweet visitor, will cherish and adore.

Anyway, as most late night drunk posts are about: love. Or in this case, happiness.

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My roommate and I had a pretty quick discussion. as we usually do when we’re both decently buzzed. It was about happiness and missed opportunities.

It was kinda  about destiny and motivation. About going out and finding someone in relation to waiting for someone to find you. He told me that instead of waiting for someone to find you, you need to go out and find them.

And I agree. Our disagreement comes from when you take the opportunities. For him he has to take every opportunity to go out. so if there isn’t any work the next day, he’s going out. for me not so much. If I don’t feel it, I’ll be content to stay home and play a video game, Is there anything wrong with that?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a recluse. I dig social interaction. And maybe I lean more on the spectrum of staying in more than going out but I still feel I have a healthy balance of home and out. I am happy. And isn’t happiness a personal thing?

Truth is, I sometimes don’t feel happy. But thats ok. When you understand the sadness you take it. You use it. You feel better about what makes you happy. My friend told me that he would see the glow I had when I would talk to girls and I agree with him 100% because girls make me happy. Does that mean I should be trying to go after them all the time, everyday, every time I have a free moment? I don’t think so because I think it starts to eat away from why it makes you happy. Because it isn’t an everyday thing.

I guess what I’m trying to take away from the discussion, and what I’m trying to convey to you in all my drunkeness, is that perception is key. Are you happy? Why are you happy? that’s pretty much all that matters. If someone else, a friend perhaps, tells you that he or she doesn’t think you’re happy because of what they perceive, well that’s really on them. Maybe its more of a reflection on them than you.

This doesn’t mean you can fake being happy. You can lie to yourself but eventually you’ll realize it. Like myself. I get what doesn’t make me happy. Will I act right away on it? No not always because I won’t obsess. But I won’t forget. and when the times come I will act on what will turn those sadness-es into happiness.

Right or wrong at least I feel ok. balanced. all right. calm.

How do you feel? What do you think?